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Planning for the Tough Stuff

Planning for the Tough Stuff

Virtual

September 24 @ 7:00 pm 8:00 pm CDT

Helping Military and Veteran Spouses Navigate Hard Conversations

Talking to your partner about mental health, stress, or safety can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. This interactive session will begin by building a shared understanding of the differences between military and veteran culture and how that can impact spouses and their relationships. From there, we’ll explore practical tools and strategies for navigating difficult conversations, like how to talk about mental health, safety planning, and secure firearm storage, with care and confidence.

Led by Dr. Kristen Vescera, a combat veteran and expert in veteran mental health, this session offers a supportive space to gain insights and prepare for the conversations that matter most to your family’s well-being.

About the Speaker

Dr. Kristen J. Vescera is a combat Veteran with ten years of service in the U.S. Army Reserve. She holds a PhD in clinical psychology from Palo Alto University, an MPH from the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health, and an MA in counseling psychology from the University of Colorado Denver. She currently serves as the Associate Director of Education at the Department of Veterans Affairs Center of Excellence for Suicide Prevention and leads communications for the Worried About a Veteran initiative.

Worried About a Veteran is a public health campaign that empowers family members and friends to take action when they’re concerned about a veteran. The initiative offers clear guidance to help you have a supportive conversation and connect the Veteran to care—before a crisis.

What You'll Gain

  • A clearer understanding of how military/veteran culture may be impacting your relationship
  • Practical language and tools to guide difficult conversations with your spouse
  • Key considerations for safety planning, including safe storage options and support resources

This Event is Open To

This event is open to all members of the military and veteran-connected community. Eligibility varies by session. View our event calendar for details on other offerings.

About EmpowerEd

EmpowerEd offers expert-led, topic-driven seminars designed to equip military and veteran families and community members with valuable information, practical tools, and trusted resources.

Most sessions are followed by an optional peer support event, Let’s Talk About It—a space to reflect, connect, and share takeaways in a supportive community. While attending the seminar is encouraged, it’s not required to join the discussion. Please note that registration for Let’s Talk About It is separate from the EmpowerEd seminar.

Dr. Elisa Borah speaking at Military Social Work & Behavioral Health Conference hosted by the Institute for Military and Veteran Family Wellness conference at UT Austin

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Looking for one-on-one support? Peer 2 Peer Connect pairs you with a trained VSN Peer Leader for individualized support. For more resources and updates, follow @veteranspousenetwork and subscribe to the VSN Newsletter. Questions or concerns? We’re here to help at vsn@austin.utexas.edu

Frequently Asked Questions

EmpowerEd offers seminar-style sessions led by rotating guest experts. Unlike our peer-based programs, these are more informational than discussion-based and open to the broader community, delivering expert insights, practical tools, and evidence-based wellness strategies.

Let’s Talk About It is an optional peer support event hosted after many of our EmpowerEd seminars, offering space to reflect, connect, and share. While EmpowerEd is expert-led, this event centers on open conversation. Seminar attendance is encouraged but not required; register separately.

For the best experience, we recommend joining from a quiet, distraction-free space and arriving on time, as participants who join more than 15 minutes late may not be admitted. Be sure to have your Zoom link ready from your confirmation email.

You must register at least 72 hours before an event. Most programs are ongoing series with multiple dates. Please check our calendar for upcoming sessions.

No, all events are completely free to attend. We are a grant-based program and believe in removing barriers to connection and support and are proud to offer these sessions at no cost to our community.

No—VSN is based at the University of Texas at Austin’s Institute for Military & Veteran Family Wellness, but we are a nationwide network open to any military-connected individuals in the US and beyond.

Modalities

Virtual

Session Types

Seminar

Eligibility

Spouse/Partner of a Service Member, Divorcee of a Service Member/Veteran, Spouse/Partner of a Veteran, Widow/Widower of a Service Member/Veteran, Family Member/Caregiver of a Service Member/Veteran, Service Member/Veteran and Provider/Supporter