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Event Series: Divorce Support

Divorce Support: Finances, Benefits, and Rights

Divorce Support: Finances, Benefits, and Rights

Virtual

October 20 @ 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm CDT

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Navigate Change with Clarity, Support, and Confidence

Separation and divorce can be some of life’s toughest transitions—especially within the military and veteran community, where unique challenges and complexities often arise. From feeling distanced from the community you’ve relied on, to navigating financial questions, benefits, and co-parenting, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or isolated.

This session is led by our guest speaker, Valerie Speltz, Federal Contractor & VSN supporter, and our very own VSN Peer Leader. This is a supportive space to connect with others who truly understand what you’re going through. Whether you’re separated, divorced, or considering separation, you’ll find empathy, practical insights, and real conversation here. You don’t have to walk this path alone—let’s help each other move forward with confidence and clarity.

What You’ll Gain

  • Practical guidance on finances, benefits, and legal rights for military and veteran spouses
  • Connection with peers who understand the unique challenges of separation and divorce
  • Actionable tools and encouragement to navigate co-parenting, community changes, and next steps

This Event is Open To

  • Spouse/partner of active-duty service member/post-service veteran
  • Divorcee or widow/widower of active duty service member/post-service veteran

Eligibility varies by session. View our event calendar for details on other offerings.

About Social Club

Social Club is a peer-led, supportive space where military and veteran families and community members can connect, reflect, and grow together. Each session offers encouragement, shared experiences, and practical tools for resilience and well-being.

Learn More

Take the First Step Toward Connection–Sign up Today!

Looking for one-on-one support? Peer 2 Peer Connect pairs you with a trained VSN Peer Leader for individualized support. For more resources and updates, follow @veteranspousenetwork and subscribe to the VSN Newsletter. Questions or concerns? We’re here to help at vsn@austin.utexas.edu. 

Frequently Asked Questions

No, Social Club is not a therapeutic or clinical service. It’s a welcoming, peer-led space for connection, conversation, and mutual support.

For the best experience, we recommend joining from a quiet, distraction-free space and arriving on time, as participants who join more than 15 minutes late may not be admitted. Be sure to have your Zoom link ready from your confirmation email.

You must register at least 72 hours before an event. Most programs are ongoing series with multiple dates. Please check our calendar for upcoming sessions.

No, all events are completely free to attend. We are a grant-based program and believe in removing barriers to connection and support and are proud to offer these sessions at no cost to our community.

No—VSN is based at the University of Texas at Austin’s Institute for Military & Veteran Family Wellness, but we are a nationwide network open to any military-connected individuals in the US and beyond.

Participant Safety Reminder:

The Veteran Spouse Network (VSN) is committed to providing a supportive and respectful environment where participants can connect with peers and share their experiences. 

Because participant safety is our highest priority, confidentiality is not absolute. If a VSN Peer Leader or staff member becomes concerned that a participant or another person may be at risk of serious harm, we may take steps to support safety. Depending on the situation, this could include notifying VSN staff, providing crisis resources, contacting emergency services, making reports required by law, or taking other reasonable actions to protect safety. 

VSN is a non-clinical peer support program and does not provide emergency services, crisis counseling, therapy, case management, legal advice, or domestic violence advocacy. However, we are committed to connecting participants with appropriate resources when safety concerns arise. 

By participating in VSN programs, you acknowledge and understand these limits of confidentiality and VSN’s commitment to participant safety.

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Modalities

Virtual

Session Types

Peer Support

Eligibility

Spouse/Partner of a Veteran, Spouse/Partner of a Service Member and Divorcee of a Service Member/Veteran